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From playing sports to people watching in Central Park, 27-year-old Nick loves the outdoors. Sadly, the sun doesn’t always love him back. This fair-skinned lawyer needs an adventurous lady who keeps sunscreen on hand. Melanie beauty operations…

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Once in a while I see something and it just strikes me as funny. Get to know me and you’ll quickly find that there are few things in this world I dislike more than Clowns, Mimes, or Asparagus… Taking that into consideration, I had to share with you all this video I just saw of a mime trying to pick up women. I don’t know if its funny, but any time a mime can be mocked, I will usually get a chuckle.

Eric

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Found someone special? Andrea’s tips on standing down.

Let’s face it, people don’t come to me because they are succeeding at online dating. For one reason or another, they are either getting all the wrong people responding to their personal ads, or they just aren’t getting any responses at all.

The more people we help over at ProfileHelper.com (over 5,000 singles so far) the more I see some common trends starting to develop. There are the people who clearly don’t put any thought into how they present themselves on dating sites and then there are the people who put way too much thought into it. That’s where I’d like to focus today.

Yes, you can actually put too much thought into your online dating profile. The results are usually disastrous. Even worse, it causes a snowball effect. When you over think every word and second guess yourself from the beginning, its going to come across as a lack of confidence. When your first profile fails to get you a date, you just go back to it and put even more thought into it. You can actually think yourself to death.

This is how a lot of people burn out on online dating. They feel like they’ve put every bit of themselves into a profile on Match.com , or Yahoo! Personals, or wherever and all they get out of it is the stress and disappointment of failure. To these people I really only have one bit of advice to pass on today. Let it go. Online dating is a great way to meet people, but it’s not worth the ulcer that’s slowly eating away at your stomach. You are not disarming a suitcase nuke. The world’s future does not hinge on you getting this absolutely perfect. The point of a profile isn’t for it to be the best profile in the world. The purpose of a good online dating profile is that it let’s people know just enough about you and what you want that they want to know more.

I’m not saying that online dating help and profile writing services like ProfileHelper are for everyone. I’m saying that when you get to the point where you are over-analyzing every word you write and still not seeing any success, perhaps its time to get an outside perspective. It’s very hard to be objective about yourself. You’re just too close to you. If you aren’t careful, you’ll see just how easy it is to think yourself out of a date.



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[…] Lesley wrote an interesting post today on Jewish dating listsHere’s a quick excerptWe have spoken about making lists before. You have yours, now once again look at it. You have probably put down everything that you hope and would dream for. Now think of this. The person you probably describe is a wonderful individual … […]


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(Online Dating News Blog) In this episode of Summer of Love, Satellite Sister Sheila Dolan continues her first date with John where they are making bread together. We learn that the extent of Sheila’s cooking skills is frozen pizza’s in the oven.  The conversation is a bit lacking while waiting for the bread to bake…

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Many singles meet people by chance at the subway, or at a cafe, or at a bar, or just about anywhere. These chance encounters may leave some with a feeling of wanting for more. The only downside is that they let that person go without getting their phone number or email. But do not lose hope, there is a way to find lost connections from chance encounters, and one way is by making a post at Craigslist.


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[…] Lesley wrote an interesting post today on Help with finding a partnerHere’s a quick excerptAnother tip for choosing a mate. When you meet someone, look at them, and ask yourself if this is the person that you would want to raise your children. If the answer if YES, then this is a good start. […]

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I’ve been getting a lot of emails lately from men who are using Craigslist. It seems that more than anyplace else, most of the women who post ads there are not women at all, but ads for different spammer companies. Interestingly though, I’ve also been getting some emails from women who are using craigslist. They want to know why guys don’t believe they’re real. When both genders are having these problems on the same dating site, it’s a recipe for disaster. To help out the guys, I’ve written up some tips to help them navigate the jungle of Craigslist in hoped of turning an online dating ad into real life romance.

Who’s Real and Who’s Fake?

OK let’s face it, if you’re looking at this post its because you’ve written to some women here and not gotten a response. Was it something you said? Were they even real women in the first place, or were they just a spammer, scammer or Russian bride in search of a green card?

I’ll be honest with you. There are a lot of fake profiles out there on this site. There are also some real ones. How do you tell? Well, there’s a couple of tricks you can use to figure it out.

  1. Look at the location. Some fake profiles have Orlando listed, but most just have it blank If a woman on here is local, she will always put in a city in the location section to avoid getting responses from guys all over the place.
  2. Use the Mouse! When you are looking at a profile, take your mouse and click at the top of the profile text. Now, drag your mouse all the way down to the location and posting ID. If you see invisible text starting to appear as you highlight the profile, it’s a fake.
  3. To photo or not to photo? There’s a big brouhaha over photos or no photos on CL. Some guys think that any woman not putting up a photo on here is fake. I can tell you that is not true. Because this site does have a bit of a reputation… a lot of women would prefer to reveal themselves only to people who interest them. So I’ll be honest with you… No photo is definitely a yellow flag, but it’s not a red flag. So don’t go knocking people off just because you can’t see their face. But also, keep in mind that here is still a decent chance that they are not real.
  4. links: Ok… this one is simple… If they are directing you to a website where they have “photos”, they are fake. Get over it and move on.

Craig’s list is a community, so you’ve got to have each other’s back here. What does that mean? Very simple. If you see a posting here that sounds hinky, or that shows the warning signs that I’ve listed, click the little spam button in the upper right-hand corner. This helps clean out all the garbage.

Finding the real women, but still can’t get a response?

A lot of that can be the way you respond to ads, or the ad you are placing.

How you present yourself is important. When you are writing an ad, the goal is to give people just enough info to make them want to know more. Think of this as your trailer. Don’t show your baggage. Stay Positive. Also, Don’t try to be funny. If you’ve got something funny to say, it will come through, but when you try to be funny, it just sounds like you are trying to be funny.

Also, when you put up an ad, if you include photos, make sure you are fully clothed. That means no shirtless pics. It doesn’t matter how ripped you are, women laugh at these photos. Even more important… NO photos of any part of your body that you’d get aressted for showing on the street!

When you are writing to someone who has posted an ad, keep it simple. Just give them the info that they are asking for. If they ask for a photo, give them one (see above for rules). Also, don’t question if they are real, and don’t try to sell yourself, just be yourself and if they are interested, they will respond.

Hopefully this will help you all succeed on Craigslist, but if you want private coaching, or helping making a great dating ad, just contact me. I’ve helped over 5,000 people improve their online dating lives and find love through the internet. Just check out ProfileHelper.com. Or give me a call at 888-44-profile.

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Understanding women has always caused some problems to the male species. No wonder men find it hard to approach the women they are interested in.

Men, in one way or another, get dumbstruck when they see women who make their hearts leap. The men’s tongues get all tied-up. It so happens that the men can’t think start small talks as much as they would like to have a decent conversation.

It’s a good thing that this era has seen the rise of online dating. Nowadays, men can approach women they fancy. They have the option to send email or instant messages. All they have to do is to know the email address and/or the IM name of the lady.

However, you still have to worry about the proper things to include in your email given that you do know the address that you would like to send your message to. There are some things that women find really disconcerting. The top on the list is a man wanting to get in her pants.

Here are some things to avoid putting in your emails to the lades.

First, do not ever write emails with sexual innuendos in them. Take for example, stating just how good you are in bed. Sure, women would appreciate someone to warm them on cold nights. However, no woman in her right state of mind would find such a message flattering. She doesn’t care how big your member is. Well, maybe not on the early stages of the dating process. Still, sending an email that has details regarding your sexual skills is a no-no. Send the message to a decent girl and you’ll surely get the cold shoulder.

Second, learn not to write anything that you would rather not say to a lady in her face. There’s a reason why you can’t and should not say it personally. Saying it in your emails or IM messages does not make it less insulting.


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